Solution Focused Practice Notes #3
Eve Lipchik was right to state that how we open sessions makes a difference. Evan George explores the development of his practice.
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- Why don't we ask the question" how will you move yourself up the scale?"*
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- Residential care – working with children and young people and the contribution that Solution Focus can make.
- Learning the tuba!
- From ‘art’ to ‘craft’ or ‘art and craft’.
- A detailed deconstruction of the ‘Best Hopes’ question.
- Route or destination: a small and very important distinction.
- Egos and Inner-tubes.
- Using Solution Focus with front line professionals during the pandemic.
- The Preferred Future and 4 practice points.
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